Some people have the 'lifelong commitment' mentality followed by 'short term convenience behaviors'. Think about it....
2015 Dating Tips
- 1. Be OVER your Ex or any past sexual/emotional relationships. (Obvious if you want any longevity and trust)
- 2. If Distance is of the essence, be sure you two at least have the $$$ to Drive or Fly to see each other at least one trip a month or every two months depending on the people and vacation time. Basically, you two can work on a smooth schedule that is discussed and agreed upon.
- 3. Rushing anything is always a no-no in any relationship. Seeing people operate these days, I feel like it's a track meet. You become interested in each other then it's READY....SET....GO! Vroooom lets see how fast we can move in together, let's see how fast we can have kids and LAST lets see how fast we can work on getting married (Which never happens 70% of the time).
I get it, everyone wants to live that fairy-tale relationship and the desire can make us IGNORE all the red flags in the world to try to make it happen. At the end of the day, if you think you found THE ONE then why not take time to get yourself in the best position and learn through time/experiences with the other person before trying to move to the next step?