These days, when I log online, all i see are too many sex buddies.....not enough official relationships being reported. Unfortunately you are STILL SINGLE if you are not in a COMMITTED relationship! People have become DELUSIONAL these days! Talking bout "Im Happily Taken" umm NO YOU ARE NOT! Your Vagina is just being Subleased,that's about all i see happening! Why turn down other date offers from nice people? Why form tunnel vision? Why ACT like you're in a relationship....when you are NOT? This is how the GREAT confusion occurs for a woman who becomes depressed and angry that a guy does not want to SERIOUSLY commit, hmmmmm i wonder why...................he has received too many free benefits without making a down payment!
SEE it like THIS: Imagine if you have a house for sale(The house is the woman and her heart), If I(The Man) see the FOR SALE sign on the yard and tell you I can give you HALF the deposit NOW but you wont know when you are getting the rest of the deposit, WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO REMOVE THE "For Sale" SIGN so other potential QUALIFIED buyers CANT see it?!
As the buyer, HE realized he can pay 50% and get 100%. Meanwhile, the seller took the sign down, told her friends she "sold" the house, went on FB and twitter to tell people the house is no longer for sale but all along, i know i ain't paying that other half of the deposit so technically the deal was NEVER OFFICIAL and the house is STILL fair game to be bought by someone else but the seller does not realize it(She is too happy at the POTENTIAL of having a buyer that she dismisses the ability to close the deal or find a new buyer.) The buyer is simply seeing how long he can BS the seller and ENJOY the house to the fullest before she realizes he isn't paying the rest of her money lol.....stop fooling yourselves. If its not official, don't even mention it on a social networking site because your "boo" can easily be 2-3 other women's "boo" too. ALL unofficial and he would not be in the WRONG for YOU letting him get the house without payment or signed paperwork.